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angel of the death Answered:
if your husband is okay with that , you can invite him !
tiffy koo Answered:
Lol if you guys are on good terms, I would say invite him.
If not, your daughter is still the flower girl flower girl , and she\'s his daughter too.
If you guys are still uncomfortable you don\'t haveto talk much, their will prob be 100s of other people to tall to lol
Yani Jolie Answered:
What does your fianc think about this invite? If he is ok with him attending, then go 4 it.
stanleys2001 Answered:
you should inform him – it affects his daughter.However, inviting him will be awakward, even if you\'re friendly now.Think about it — the person you once loved is marrying someone else.May bring up bad memories or feelings of inadequacy…..Socially, cheap wedding dress plus size very awkward to handle.
The Truth Hurts Answered:
Go for it, he will enjoy seeing his daughter and she him. W.planners don\'t know it all, that\'s being opinionated to me. Weird and unnatural in this day and age=no.
Jenny Lynne Answered:
Have you ever invited your ex over to your home to have dinner with you and your fiance orange cocktail dress orange cocktail dress?Do you and your fiance go out socially with your ex bridesmaid dresses plus size bridesmaid dresses plus size?If not, then why would you invite your ex to one of the largest dinners you\'ll ever put on in your life?When you ask yourself this and then get your own answer, then perhaps you\'ll understand what your wedding planner is talking about.
Sondra Answered red cocktail dress size 16 :
For your daughter\'s sake you should. Provided it\'s okay with your husband to be, of course. And you can guarantee that he\'ll behave! I think it\'s important for relationships and acceptance that children see their parents and their partners all getting along.
It\'s not as if you\'re getting married to get back at him, and he may not even go but it\'ll show you made the effort!
Hugh G Answered: wedding dresses plus size wedding dresses plus size
If you two are on good terms then yes, you can invite him. Wedding planners know a lot but they can\'t give input on personal situations, you need to decide for yourself. If you\'ll feel bad to not invite him then do it, unless your husband is seriously against it for whatever reason (he shouldn\'t be, since you are marrying HIM after all).
catherine Answered:
Ask your fiance how he feels. Your wedding planner is right — romantica bridesmaid dresses ; it generally is awkward and it doesn\'t happen too much at all. BUT only you and your fiance can decide whether or not it is actually awkward for you two. If he\'s fine with it, muslim wedding gowns and you\'re friends with your ex, why not invite him? If you don\'t invite him, silver grey cocktail dresses I\'m sure he will understand.
Samantha Answered:
I can\'t state it any better than Stanley did.
S Answered:
My first question is what does your fiance think?If he gets along with your ex and he doesn\'t see a problem then go ahead and invite him.if he thinks it is a bad idea I would respect his opinion and not invite him.If that is the case, then sit down with your ex and say you don\'t want to make an awkward situation at the wedding.
Jennie Answered:
just sharing a daughter isn\'t enough of a reason to invite him.if he\'s still a positive part of your life & your husband to be is alright with it then go ahead and tell him and invite him.
I find most wedding planners are very traditional & don\'t understand when exes get along so they will ignorantly & blissfully tell you to exclude people who are actually important to you.then again, your planner may be afraid that you\'re not over your ex & is trying to avoid you canceling the wedding.
Wilma F Answered:
I agree with most of the answers already and think that the wedding planner here is wrong – he\'s your daughter\'s father and you said you get along so if you think it would be nice for him to be there then ask him.
Even if people think it is weird it shouldn\'t matter – it\'s none of their business. When I go to weddings I am paying attention to the bride and groom not thinking about their guest list! You\'re getting married which is a pretty huge step in \'letting him go\' anyway! And he will always be your daughter\'s father.
However don\'t feel obliged to invite him when you tell him -you can just explain that you think it might be awkward. I\'m sure he\'d be feeling the same and appreciate your honesty.
Similarly if you do invite him he might not want to come considering the memories – that\'s his choice however. He\'d probably appreciate the gesture either way.
Lastly – many congratulations on your coming marriage ! I hope you have a fantastic day and the lead up isn\'t too stressful for you.
Lizzy Answered:
Wow, what a tricky question.That\'s a tough one.You really, really need to speak to your fiance about his feelings on it.Let him know you feel kind of guilty NOT inviting your ex but are really unsure as to what you should do.Consider these alternatives, sale evening dresses as well:
- Invite him to the ceremony ONLY.This way he gets to see his baby girl go down the aisle.If there\'s any chance that he may even remotely cause a scene, then that option is out.
- Ask him to be a part of the shopping experience for your daughter.The two of you can choose her dress together, and he can have some photo op time with her.
- When in doubt, ask your mom.If you\'re struggling with an idea, sometimes mom knows best.
- Skip the invite to your ex and make sure your photographer gets some great shots of your daughter specifically.Then you can send the photos in a card and explain that you wanted to share your daughter\'s role in the ceremony with him.
This is a tough one.In a way, v neck lace wedding dress v neck lace wedding dress your planner is trying to impress upon you the importance of focusing on your new marriage.Ask your new other half for his thoughts…and then respect whatever his wishes are about the matter.
